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My Teens Have Their Own Lockdown Food Budget

It’s saving our sanity and giving us some control back over our disrupted lives.

Alex Kilcannon
6 min readApr 23, 2020
Image by Gerd Altmann from Pixabay

In the third week of March, the UK decided to close schools and colleges due to the coronavirus.

My teens are 17 and 15. Both their educational establishment's closed on the Friday of that week, at short notice.

My eldest son was then furloughed with us on 48-hour call up from the Armed Forces, my partner told to work from home and I was dipping in and out of agency work because my industry — working with school groups in the outdoors- shut down overnight.

Like much of the rest of the country, we were all stuck at home together with no definite end.

I’ve been a stay at home Mum and then a working Mum. I’d paid my dues juggling the bulk of the household jobs. I knew there was no way I wanted to go back to those days because there’s something that’s not often acknowledged about running a household — especially one with kids in it.

It takes an incredible amount of mental and emotional energy.

It’s not the physical labour of actually doing the stuff that needs doing. It was organising and managing it all that wore me down.

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Alex Kilcannon
Alex Kilcannon

Written by Alex Kilcannon

Writer, poet, outdoors instructor and Mother of Teenagers. I rewild kids for a living.

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The kitchen is now the busiest room in the house. It’s where we do most of our catching up through the day. I’m on hand if they need cooking advice or aren’t sure how to do something. O...

That’s such a great idea! My boys are 20 and 10 so we’ve done a modified version where I order stuff in that older son is able to cook for all of us, but I also love prepping and cooking alongside one another. It’s really relationship-building!

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Alex Kilcannon I can relate. My three made it through their teen years alive, and so did I. Sounds like you’re doing it right. I enjoyed the story.

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This is great! When I was a teenager my mom and dad did something similar. I was extremely picky (not because I was veggie or gluten-free) so I got to buy and make my own meals. There was a lot of frozen pizza. It wasn’t the healthiest thing ever…